Dana Kuritzkes gives advice on dating, sex, and all things dating on social media. She has over 160,000 followers on TikTok and one of her videos recently went viral on the internet.
In it, she reveals what she says women “really” want in bed. However, she makes it clear that she can only speak from her own experience, the experience of her friends and the women she has spoken to. She does not speak for all women everywhere.
Here’s what women really want in bed, according to Dana.
“Number one, we need to warm up.
You wouldn’t put a turkey in a cold oven. Same with us. Warm us up until we’re on fire,” she said.
“Number two, you have to be determined.
There is a difference between being assertive and aggressive. I want to remind you that I speak only from my experience and the experience of my friends, but we like to be told what to do. It shows us that you’re confident and confident in what you’re doing, and that’s hot.”
“Number three, we want our ‘ego’ to be stroked.
Keep in mind that women are incredibly self-aware, so the more you tell us you love her, the better. Say we’re hot, say you appreciate what you do to us. Example: I like the way your X X. You can fill in the blanks.
“Number four, you have to learn to multitask.
What I mean by that is that you should use your fingers more. Especially when you’re down south.”
Don’t forget your fingers when you’re in the southern region, says Dana.
“Number five, tell us to take our time.
We, women, are often so reflective that as soon as you tell us to take it easy, we relax more and don’t feel the same pressure,” Dana says.
She also recommends using a sex device. “Sex devices are your friends, not your enemies,” she says.
“Number six, send sexy messages.
Send us a message and let us know you’re looking forward to meeting us and let us know what you’re going to do with us when you do.”
“Number seven, surprise us by trying something new.
“As long as both parties are comfortable,” she notes.
The video received nearly seven million views and over 550,000 likes. Many women agree with Dana.
“The moment he asks, ‘Are you around?’, he ruined all the hard work he put in,” one user said.
